Motel 6

The guy who has a negative attitude, has zero discipline to follow through on anything he says he is going to do.  Gets super defensive with his wife and thinks everything is her fault.  Has a extreme limitations and is stuck in a career that he hates.  Leans on porn and substances to numb his pain and low self worth.  In hotel terms, nobody looks forward to staying there and is expecting low quality service and sub par dirty rooms.  

Holiday Inn

The average Joe.  Finances are good, but job is not fulfilling.  Sets goals and gets a few done, but also falls off on some.  Health and physique get a little worse every year.  Friendships are nothing special and marriage has plateaued.  Faith life is lukewarm and you go through the motions.  You blend in and do not stand out.  In hotel terms, it's somewhat of a safe bet, but nobody's first choice.   The hotel is just a room and not a part of the experience.  

Ritz Carlton

You stand out in every way.  Your words are impactful, and your actions are trusted and consistent.  Your health is on point and your body and mind performs due to that.  You preach the gospel and use words when necessary.  Your friendships are real brothers who lead themselves well and provide value.  In hotel terms, everyone wants to stay there, the experience is first class, unique, and special.  Nobody desires to leave!

SPIRITUALLY

Imagine being absolutely on fire for God, with full trust and authority in him.  When this happens, it's crazy how many doors open up and how much more peaceful you are and how impactful you are to everyone in your life!   There is no greater path to fulfillment and purpose.

RELATIONALLY

Imagine actually becoming what the Bible says about marriage, 2 becoming 1!  When that happens, it's crazy how connected and respected you feel.  How you truly just desire to talk and spend time with your BEST FRIEND.  Fights disappear and intimacy skyrockets!!

PHYSICALLY

Imagine how you feel when your body is an asset instead of a detriment.  Yes, biceps and abs are fun, but its far more about how you feel and perform.  It screams discipline and dedication.  That lets others know what you are about and earns admiration and respect.  

MENTALLY

Imagine having true confidence in who you are.   When most break, you will win.  You will start to base your decisions on your commitments and not your emotions.  It's the true essence of a leader.  When your wife knows that you are secure and stable, she is intimate and loving!

On Your Own

You've tried working things out on your own with books, free downloads, and podcasts, only for things to temporarily improve. But shortly after, things returned back to the way they were before.  

Traditional Counseling

You've tried "traditional" counseling or therapy, which was nice to get someone else's opinion, but you were only rehashing past hurts and never really moving things forward. 

Friends & Family

You've tried talking to your pastor, friends, and family, where you got loving words of encouragement, slightly biased and mixed opinions, which only left you more confused. 

Riley

“Tommy Changed my Life!!  When I first reached out to him, I was full of insecurities, fear, and a bit lost in all areas, especially my marriage and my faith.  I literally told Tommy that I had NEVER left my house with the feeling of peace.  Fast forward a few months and all I have is peace. All aspects of my life have changed.   What I thought was my life crumbling down, literally was the exact opposite, it was my life building to everything I ever wanted!  So thankful I worked with Tommy.”

Chris

"Tommy is one of the realest dudes out there!  We linked up entirely on IG, which is not like me, so I had hesitation to become vulnerable and reach out and commit, but wholeheartedly can say it’s been one of the best steps I’ve taken for me, my wife, family and those around me.  He is easy to talk to, relatable, non-judgmental, impactful and actually listens, understands and provides challenging but solid advice.  Tommy has provided me confidence, purpose and excitement. I would without hesitation, recommend him to anyone looking to improve themselves!"